PLAYSURE

CONSENT & ETIQUETTE RULES

At Playsure, it’s entirely up to each individual whether they enter the play areas or simply enjoy the other spaces on offer.

Doors to the play spaces are open from 8pm to 10pm—during this time, attendees are welcome to wander upstairs for a look.

From 10pm to 2am, the buddy system will be in place, and safe play may begin.
 
 
ALL THOSE ATTENDING PLAYSURE MUST READ THE FOLLOWING...
 

Step into Playsure to explore, be curious, be respectful, and live a new experience.
 
Hold space for others to voice their needs and desires. And experience the same in return.
 
We love risk takers, but not rule breakers. Non-compliance will result in blacklisting. It is imperative for everyone attending to abide by the following rules for a great night.
 

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OUR TWO MAIN RULES

RAISE A HAND

Raise the palm of your hand to deny a request, advancement, or to stop an action already in motion. No reason is required when raising a hand — so do not ask for one.

INTOXICATION

Anyone interacting sexually with someone noticeably intoxicated will be removed from site with no refund.

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NO PHONES
No phones or recording devices allowed past coat check — and no photography upon arrival or exit.

RESPECT ALL

• Respectful body and verbal language is a must towards all attendees and staff.
• Be respectful of all ages, genders, sexual orientations, backgrounds, body shapes, and abilities.
• Staff require the same respect and communication as guests. They are no more or less consensual by choosing to work at Playsure.
• Be aware of others' personal space. Only invited touch is accepted.
  
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SAFE SEX
Practice safer sex by using condoms, dental dams, and other barrier methods.

THE BUDDY SYSTEM
From 10pm, anyone heading upstairs must do so in a group of two or more. This is to ensure shared responsibility, safety, and check-ins. There are more exhibitionist spaces to play downstairs.

ATTENDEES MUST...

• Exercise curiosity.
• Take satisfaction in giving pleasure, not just receiving it.
• Enjoy looking after their physical and mental wellbeing — this doesn’t mean you need to be typically “fit,” but groomed and comfortable in your own skin.
• Be mindful of the effects of alcohol and drugs on consent.
• Attune themselves to verbal and body language. Don’t wait for a ‘no’ — always seek a clear, enthusiastic ‘yes’. Silence or passivity is not consent.
• Discuss boundaries and have regular check-ins with partners before entering the main event space.
• Communicate boundaries, including areas of the body you like or dislike being touched, pressure, speed, language style, and whether you’re open to others joining — or if the focus should remain solely on you.
• Gain the owner’s consent and confirmation of sterilisation before using any sex toy.
  

NO SOLO-PLEASURE WITHOUT CONSENT
Voyeurism, the sexual interest in watching others, is permitted. However, self-pleasuring is only allowed with prior consent while visually enjoying others.

POST-PLAY CARE
If you're trying something new or emotionally intense, check in with your partner(s) — and with yourself. You’re also welcome to check in with staff if you’re unsure how you feel after a scene.

CHILL ZONES & DANCE FLOOR
These are non-play spaces. Respect the vibe — be social and friendly, but always respectful. No unsolicited touch. Genitals may be on show in play spaces, but please stay covered on the dance floor, and in the bar and chill areas.

❌ REMOVAL & BLACKLISTING
Breaking consent rules, intoxication policy, or behaving inappropriately may result in immediate removal and permanent blacklisting. Playsure staff use discretion, and debriefs may follow post-event.

WHAT HAPPENS AT PLAYSURE STAYS AT PLAYSURE

Do not share stories or personal details with others outside of the event. This is a safe space for self-expression and exploration, to expose our deepest desires without judgement.

FEEL SEXY
We love expressive lingerie and kink attire. Genitals may be on show in play spaces, but please stay covered on the dance floor, and in the bar and chill areas. Check our Playsure Pintererst board for outfit inspiration: www.nz.pinterest.com/the_naked_world/playsure


COMMUNICATE WITH STAFF
Staff are identifiable by a TN.W STAFF visor. If you need something, feel uncomfortable, or see someone who appears uncomfortable, please talk to a staff member. Staff will offer their discreet assistance.


TAKE CARE
Look after yourself and others. Dance and learn. Acknowledge and declare your wants and desires for this evening’s adventure.


Enjoy Playsure.

With lots of love from, The Naked World 🍒